How other people see us...

Let me begin by saying that I absolutely hate it when people stop by my house unannounced. If you do not call to let me you are coming then you are lucky if I answer the door. Thats just how I am and the people close to me know this. However, yesterday I had an unexpected visit from someone that I didnt even know cared. This is a man that is friends with my husband, but that hadnt talked to my husband in a while. He came to ask me if T and I are doing ok and to see if we need anything. He wanted to talk to hubs, but hubs moved out and I dont really know where he is staying and I have no way to contact him (he lost his phone). So the visits I have with hubs are determined by hubs at his discretion and there is nothing really I can do about it. Anyways, while Jason was here visiting he told me that he really thinks that me and hubs will work this out. He said he has seen the looks that we give each other when the other isnt looking and he knows that we love each other. He said hubs has told him how much he loves me and T and that there must be something more going on here. Hearing that from someone else just made me feel so much better. I know that being in Iraq changed my husband. I know that staying here without him changed me. I just hope and pray that he realizes just what he has here and comes home. This is hard. This is so very very hard.